When Your Provider Breaks Your Water After You Said No... #birth #advocay #ytshorts #pregnancy

Here’s a birth tip that completely changed my life⬇️

My first birth was both beautiful… and devastating.

I walked in excited.

I walked out feeling like it happened to me.

No one told me I could ask questions.

Say no.
Push back.
Refuse.

I didn’t know I was allowed to have a voice.

And no one handed me a mic.

So I left that room silenced.

But I didn’t stay quiet.

I became obsessed with learning everything about birth.

Then I became a labor nurse.

And what I saw?
Broke me.
Again and again.

Women being dismissed.

Rushed.
Talked over.

Maneuvered like pawns in a system that profits off their silence.

So I made it my mission to flip the script.

To teach you how to say no without feeling like you’re “difficult.”

To advocate like a queen.
To birth on your terms.

Because this is your body. Your baby. Your birth.

And here’s the truth that changed everything for me and thousands of women:

???????? You can say stop.
???????? You can fire your doctor.
???????? You don’t have to earn respect—you command it.

You are the queen of the birth room.
Don’t let anyone make you forget it.

xoxo,
Trish

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⚠️ Medical Disclaimer: I’m a Labor & Delivery RN, but this content is for informational purposes only and is not medical advice. Always consult your healthcare provider.